Most guys who are desperately hoping to date beautiful girls usually believe that these types of women are out of their league. For some, this can become such a huge dilemma, that they rarely (if ever) consider dating such women. But wouldn’t it be it great if you could date the woman you really liked; if you knew how to date a girl you really wanted? The thing is, you could totally do that, but first you have to get rid of your limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
Probably the majority of men who want to date the “perfect girl” ruin their chances by making her more unique than she actually is. Usually the woman you think is out of your league really isn’t. The problem lies actually with you, to be exact – with the way of think. The truth is, you put this girl high on your pedestal and give her more significance than she actually deserves. You make her special in your mind and start treating her differently from all the other girls, this way lowering your own self-worth.
But it doesn’t have to be like this. It’s actually all about how you choose to look at a woman. If your start creating these absurd fantasies of her as the perfect girl (if only she would give you a chance!), then
Many people have a hard time when it comes to dating. They make mistakes that could have been easily avoided or manage to leave a wrong impression of themselves. But dating in general shouldn’t be hard. It should actually be a fun and memorable experience. So, how do you make a date memorable? How do you improve it?
Maybe the biggest problems most people face when they are on a date with someone is to be afraid of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time and creating awkward silences.
Whenever a silent moment arises they start to panic and go into their heads trying to think of something that can fill the silence. But since very few people in situations like this can come up with interesting topics to talk about, they fail at it.
The best solution here is to relax and not think about it. Pauses in conversations are a natural thing and shouldn’t be feared. Usually people say things that they will regret later when they are trying to fill the silence in the conversation.
The first date can always be a nerve-racking experience. For some, the anxiety a first date brings, can be so influential that they go out of their way to find reasons and excuses to avoid dating. But you have to understand that the fear of a first date is a natural thing and not something that can so easily avoided.
The majority of people will feel someway uneasy when meeting someone new because it’s a way to put your personality on the line and risk the chance of getting rejected. And most of the times, rejection will happen! However, this is never a sufficient reason to let it influence your behavior on a date or avoid dating at all.